And here's what I need to say to you, winter, fears and stress, and anyone who can hear me: There is no such thing as one way to do it.

She can have a house with a million plants and burn sage in the bathtub while reading as much as she needs. And do it all in one day. She will never lose her wild. She’s just investing in herself and nurturing her really beautiful roots. And she’s holding on so tight to her truths, passions and commitments, even when, especially when, they all seem totally paradoxical.